Every learner is different. Use these ideas to start a conversation with your child, family, school, and educator.
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Autism and communication support
Ask what helps the learner feel safe, understand what comes next, and communicate choices. Predictable routines, clear instructions, visual supports, and interests chosen with the learner can make participation easier. Adapt each idea to the child rather than assuming one approach works for everyone.
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Reading, writing, and maths support
A special educator can identify the parts of a task that are difficult and teach them in smaller, clear steps. Ask how they will use practice, examples, accessible materials, and feedback while building on the learner’s strengths. A support plan should be individual and reviewed as the child grows.
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Behaviour, sensory, and daily routines
When a learner is distressed or finds a routine hard, look for what may be making the situation difficult and what the learner is communicating. Ask how the educator will make routines predictable, support communication, and agree on calm, respectful responses with the family and school.
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Taking part in school life
Inclusive support helps a learner participate in lessons, play, and school routines with peers. This may involve adapting learning materials, using assistive tools, coordinating with classroom teachers, and checking that the learner has a meaningful voice in decisions.
BEFORE YOU CHOOSE
Questions you can ask an educator
Look for a respectful partnership, clear goals, and support that fits the learner.
What experience and recognised training do you have for the support we are looking for?
How will you learn about my child’s strengths, communication, and goals?
How will you work with the family and school, and how will we review progress?
How will your support help my child build confidence and independence?
A SIMPLE SUPPORT ROUTINE
Plan a session around the learner
These are flexible ideas, not a fixed programme. The learner’s communication, energy, interests, and goals should guide each session.
Choose one small goal. Agree on one useful skill, such as asking for a break, reading a short paragraph, or solving one kind of sum. Start from what the learner can already do.
Make the task clear. Show the steps, use plain language, and offer a worked example or picture when helpful. Give the learner time to respond and a way to ask for help.
Practise and adjust. Use short practice with breaks. If the learner is stuck or tired, change the task, materials, or pace instead of treating distress as misbehaviour.
Notice and share progress. Record what the learner did with less help, what worked, and what to try next. Share this with the learner, family, and school in a respectful way.
GET READY TO TALK
Notes to bring to a first meeting
A few everyday examples help the educator understand the learner’s whole experience, not only the parts that feel difficult.
Strengths and interests: What does the learner enjoy, choose, or do confidently?
Communication and choices: How does the learner share ideas, ask for help, or show that they need a break?
Hard moments: Which task or routine is difficult, and what usually helps the learner feel ready again?
One useful goal: What small change would make learning or participation easier for the learner right now?
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Keep the learner involved
Offer real choices, explain what will happen, and ask what feels helpful. Protect privacy, speak directly to the learner in an age-respectful way, and treat their strengths and preferences as part of the support plan.
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